Are You Worried About How You Treat People?

Are you worried about how you treat people? Sometimes people, especially young people who are still growing, developing and learning, need help to understand why they behave in certain ways. Abusing or hurting someone in any way is not okay, and asking for support if you’re unsure or scared that you’re treating people unkindly can be hard- but it’s also the best way to change and get the help you need.

If you’re not sure about your actions you can read more HERE about healthy relationships and HERE about bullying. Do you find yourself doing any of these things? If so talking about it can help. There are lots of options, like opening up to school or college support staff (including teachers and school nurses) or a youth worker. They may refer you on to a specialist agency that can really listen and are skilled at supporting without judgement. You can also ask any trusted adult for help speak out, or talk to any other agency you’re already working with.

If talking face to face feels too hard you can ask us a question or contact Childline by phone or online.

Domestic abuse between young people is on the rise, this doesn’t always involve physical violence. It could look like controlling behaviour, tracking someone’s movements, name calling or any emotional and sexual harm. If you are 18 or over, and think you’re hurting someone this way, you can contact Respect through your phone or webchat for help.

If you are worried about your sexual thoughts or behaviour Shore is a service designed especially for teens.

Young people may hurt others for lots of different reasons. Often it’s a sign that they need help to understand their own emotions and behaviours.  It’s important to know that you don’t have to keep going this way and people can help.